Showing posts with label Post Wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Post Wedding. Show all posts

Friday, August 8, 2008

The favors that blew up in our face...literally!

I like to think that I have a flare for the creative and unique. So, the challenge of coming up with a wedding favor was a personal ambition. I couldn't do something too 'main stream', nor could I get swept away with high costs. Therefore, I needed to combine my creativity and resources to create the most memorable favor anyone had seen....and you can certainly say that I did just that.

The idea progressed over a series of months. First it started with a clear glass bottle, similar to a soda bottle. Second, I purchased some red bottle caps. I could see the idea taking shape, but whatever was I going to fill this bottle with?? Wracking my brain, it hit me...bath salt!!

After a few online vendors quoted me HIGH prices for their bath salt, I hit the web. After an hour of googling, I discovered some home made bath salt recipes. This avenue provided me the customization of colors, fragrances, ect....it was going to be perfect! The recipe was simple, one part Epsom salt, scented oil, color dye, and the optional baking soda (for extra softness to the skin). Oh...and I was going to go all out, no expenses spared, throw in all of the ingredients!

So, after a few weeks of brewing in the kitchen, and my mixer on full blast for hours the salt was done! I added the custom labels to my bottles and I was ready for production. With the assistance of my bridesmaids (and a few bottles of wine), we were off. My girls did such a great job...they even filled them to the very top. Then, put their finishing touches of the shiny red bottle cap pressed firmly down on the bottle. They were a piece of art! Now, all I had to do was wait for the wedding to unveil my creation!

The wedding came and went in a flash (as it always does). My guests grabbed their bottles before our big exit, and they were a hit!

(early warning sign) A few days after we returned from the honeymoon, my husband was at the computer when he heard a loud 'BANG'! He rushed into the living room, where the extra bottles were being stored, and noticed that one had exploded!! The cap had blown off and salt was all over the room. Taken back by the surprise he called me with the story. After a few short minutes of problem solving....Mr. Wizard and Bill Nye realized the mistake. I had put OIL, SALT, and BAKING SODA, in an AIR TIGHT COMPRESSED BOTTLE!! Anyone that has had 3rd grade science knows that this can not be a good combination.

(Bottles go flying) It was not long at all before I started receiving frantic calls about exploding bottles! Friends, family, co-workers were all calling with stories about their exploding favors. Some of them were panicked, others thought it was funny, and others were complaining about the damage that I had caused in their homes. I can just imagine my favors blowing up all across town, ravaging homes, and hurting innocent people. Just as any manufacturer would, I issued a recall. I sent out NUMEROUS emails warning my guests about the dangers of their 'mementos'. I provided instructions on how to handle the favors, how to remove the pressure, dispose of the bottles, ect. It was quite the ordeal for several weeks as I lived in fear that I may have blown out a loved ones eye or killed a pet hamster.

Slowly as weeks passed, the calls were coming in less frequent (Thank God, or I was going to have to buy a hot line #). I got clean bills of health from my guests, and all seemed to be forgotten. I made sure that my husband took care of our remaining left overs, to which he almost went blind from the salt blowing in his face. Thankfully, we do still have a small memento of a turquoise blue dent lingering in our ceiling from the ordeal.


(These pictures were provided from my photographers; Scott and Tem Photography, after the bottles blew up in their home.)

The Missing Centerpieces...


My wonderful new husband and I returned from our amazing honeymoon and magical wedding. Everything had gone perfect, and we could not have been happier. We got back into our new life at home, and began sorting out things post-wedding. A few weeks passed when I dug out all of our wedding center pieces to take inventory and begin the process of selling them on Craig's list. To my surprise, I noticed two vases missing from my grand total. I questioned my new husband, who knew nothing of the issue, and told me to let it go. So, I went about things and posted the ad to recoup the costs on my expensive spend...



Approximately 5 months later...... a friend of mine had a baby! I was very excited about the new addition to the family, and couldn't wait to see pictures. As is the tradition now a days, all of the pictures were posted on Myspace. I quickly went to her page to see 'the bundle of joy', and was surprised to see 'new house pictures' posted as well. I started thumbing through the photos, when....there it was! Filed under 'front bedroom' was a shot of the missing two vases, used as lovely decor in her new home. Well, you can imagine this came as quite a surprise to me.



(5 months earlier....the night of the wedding). This friend had attended our wedding with her husband, and unborn baby. During the activities of the night we had several people coming to us with there well wishes for our future. When we came to this particular friend, she couldn't talk about anything other than my center pieces, and how much she wanted to buy them from me. I was certainly enthusiastic that she liked them so much, but thought that we could discuss the issue later. So, I said we could talk about it after the honeymoon, and that was that. I never heard from her again, and the vases were never mentioned after that point.



Reality. We realized that our friend, husband, and unborn baby had hung around for the rest of the wedding. At the end of the night, while everyone was packing up, she and her husband smuggled out two of the vases along with some other small pieces of decoration. She never mentioned it to anyone or myself...until the pictures.